Cats are crueller than kids

Last night when we got home from work, Dan and I headed out into the garden to get to work on deweeding the patio and planting some veg into the side borders.  Every year my Mum gives me loads and loads of vegetables to plant in my garden.  Some years it works well, other years I end up killing the plants and there are some years where I end up with so much veg I could open up my own market stall on the side of my street with the amount I harvest!

This year could possibly be one of those years as she sent me back with tomato plants, strawberries, carrots, peas, a squash, potatoes and more lettuces.  There is also a tray of sweet peas to add to the list!

Dan brought his laptop out into the patio while I was chopping back the shrub that falls across the patio about this time every year.  After a little while I noticed two robins fluttering from fence post to fence post and scalding us constantly.  I mentioned to Dan perhaps they had a nest nearby, not considering for one minute that it would be in the middle of the prickily shrub I was in the middle of cutting back, so close to the house with a Bella-cat, but as I got a little closer to the bush I could hear a faint ‘peep, peep!’ so I moved further up the garden to work on a different area instead and leave the nest alone.  The two parent birds continued to scald Bella from afar who had begun to watch them and follow them round the garden.  They were too quick for her though and every time she started to get close they would shoot off to a safer post a little further away from her.

Next thing I knew Bella had jumped the fence into our neighbours garden, gotten hold of a baby robin in her mouth and yanked it over to me.  I shouted at her until she dropped the bird which I picked up but was unsure what to do with.  It kept flapping and squirming in my hand – I didn’t think it was going to die as it still had a lot of strength left in it but I knew I had to get it back to the nest soonish.  Dan shut Bella in and we tried to climb up the fence to see if we could get a better view of the nest from up high, but I couldn’t see a thing.  Our next door neighbour wasn’t home so we couldn’t get into her garden to try and reach over.

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Not long after I took this photo the baby bird died in my hand.  Bella snuck out past us later and returned with another baby bird.  This one was already dead by the time she gave him to us.

I see lots of kids being cruel to other kids every day in my job but cats are really cruel creatures.  She wouldn’t have eaten the bird, but rather let him suffer and ended up leaving him to die on our step.  Each week I end up moving a collection of voles and birds from our back step.  It really upset me today that the poor robin parents had lost two of their babies to Bella on the same day.  I know it’s all part of being a cat owner, and it’s just in her nature but she’s grounded right now.  No outdoor roaming for the next few days whilst the birds learn to fly.  Supervised watch only.  :(

My food yesterday wasn’t great. Breakfast was the same cereal as always, but this was the last of the box so I’ll have to be more creative the rest of the week! I completely forgot my lunch in the morning which was frustrating as I’d rung Dan on Sunday night and specifically asked him to pick up a lettuce before the shops shut. Luckily I found a veggie cuppa soup at work so I did have something at lunchtime.imagewpid-IMAG0881.jpg

Dinner was just a tomato based pasta bake with some sausages thrown in.

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Messy eater

This weekend was all about helping Mum and Dad out and seeing something of them.
I’d taken my running clothes back and had planned on getting a run in first thing Sunday morning but when I woke at 5:30 Mum and Dad were both already up and eating breakfast and I would have felt guilty if I headed out for a run and not sat down to breakfast with them. Breakfast was one and a half cheese sandwiches. There’s just something about having cheese sandwiches at my parent’s house, even if it only ends up being for breakfast!image

After breakfast I power walked the dog for an hour through footpaths along the edges of fields.  The sun was shining and it was a beautiful day.  I wish I’d taken my phone with me to take some pictures – but unfortunately I forgot to charge it overnight so I’d left it charging while I took Blue out for his run.

Dad was desperate for me to go to the car boot with him, so we headed over there for a little while, where we discovered a sea-food stall and between us ate a pot of cockles.  I’m not sure that I’ve ever eaten cockles before.  They’re quite slimy and had a weird sensation in my mouth – almost like I was eating sandwiches filled with sand, they felt like they had loads of grit in them.  Dad asked for salt and vinegar on the pot and we took it in turns to fish them out with our fingers!

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After a brief wander around the stalls (there weren’t very many out this weekend) Dad took me past the house he’s currently doing up to have a look inside and then we went to Lidl to pick up some shopping for the house.

I helped Mum to tidy and clean her bedroom as after her surgery she cannot make very much movement or stand for long periods of time.  Luckily, no spiders crawled down the feather duster to get me unlike last time I got the duster out!

For lunch I made us all two small jacket potatoes filled with cheese and baked beans.

imageAfter lunch was another walk of the dog as Dad had installed the dog guard in his new car and wanted to test it out.  Although I didn’t get a run in over the weekend in the end, I’m glad I got to head out on a walk with Dad and Blue.

The afternoon was spent deweeding the vegetable garden and planting some sweet peas along the front of the house.  Mum was feeling well enough by this point to bring a patio chair out to the front of the house and sat and instructed me where she wanted plants to go and which weeds to pull.  She also gave me a whole load of plants to bring back and plant in my own garden – mainly veggies which I shall hopefully get in at some point this week!  Fingers crossed for another nice weekend next week so that I can get out in the garden at my own house!

Together we put together a dinner of salmon with cheese sauce, boiled potatos, cabbage and carrots.

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Dessert was the traditional (when I come to visit) cake and custard!

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And now you can see what a messy eater I truly am!  Certain foods I eat a certain way.  Cake and custard is one of them.  I have to chop up the cake into tiny pieces and then stir in the custard.

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Sushi squirter

A quick catch up with eats from Saturday…I grabbed some sushi from Morrisons for lunch on the way back to my parents.  I’ve only ever had sushi once before, out at a restaurant in Birmingham with my friemd Amy.  It’s not something I’d ever be able to eat with Dan…he’s way too picky!

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I thought I’d taken a better picture than this.  Sushi is incredibly difficult to eat whilst driving.  I can see why people head for a burger/chocolate instead!  I’m glad I had the sushi though.  It was really nice.  Only £1.25 and only 175 calories in total, but still really filled me up.  It also came with this incredibly cute little squirter for the soy sauce in the shape of a fish!

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Mum had the staples out from her operation on Saturday so was in a lot of pain.  She had returned home on Tuesday evening from hospital but the idea is she goes straight back into chemo again next week.  She’s already incredibly weak right now.  I’m hoping that this batch of chemo can kill off a little more of the cancer.  Because she’s agreed to go on a cancer drug trial she has to go up to Norwich every week and have a session of chemo once every single week instead of every 2/3 weeks like she would have done otherwise.

I made tea to take the pressure off my parents a little.  Mum has been advised not to have any fresh salad/vegetable items as her immune system is currently so low.  Therefore I made my regular sausage casserole with tinned potatoes, carrots and sweetcorn.  I gave myself the left over sauce from the pot.  It didn’t taste hugely different, but I would still prefer to use fresh veg when possible in the future.

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I also picked us each up a brown bread roll to mop up the casserole sauce afterwards.  I only gave Mum half of the portion size I had but she still couldn’t finish it.

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Whenever I’m back home Dad always makes chocolate custard as he knows I love it, but I never have it at home myself!

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In the evening, after visiting my Aunt and Uncle, tidying the kitchen and walking the dog we sat down for our Saturday night family activity of watching Casualty together.  It’s been a tradition as long as I remember, especially between Dad and I.  I’m not the sort of person who can just sit and watch TV though, so at the same time I put together my first bridemaid asking card following these instructions I found on Pinterest.

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It took a full hour to put together and although I’m really happy with how it turned out I am now wishing I had not chosen four bridesmaids!!!