One year a wife

Last week I updated my Instagram and Twitter descriptions, removing the word ‘newlywed’ from my bio.

Our wedding in the church

I don’t think I can really class myself as a newlywed anymore.  Yesterday it was our one year anniversary.  Dan and I have gone from celebrating eight years together, to celebrating our first as a married couple.

Dan and I walking down the aisle at our wedding

We decided to spend our first wedding anniversary visiting our Uni town of Stafford, where we first met at the beginning of 2007.  After picking up some sandwiches from ASDA we headed over to the castle…

Stafford Castle

Me at Stafford castle on our anniversary weekend

Dan and Me at Stafford castle on our anniversary weekend Dan and Me at Stafford castle on our anniversary weekend

…before taking a wander through the town to see what had changed.  Quite a lot had changed since we had last visited in fact.  It felt very surreal walking along the streets as we had done so many times before but for them not to be the same.

In the afternoon we checked in at our hotel where Dan had (unknown to me) ordered some wine to be in our room on arrival. (Brownie points for the husband!)

That evening we headed took a long walk past our old uni houses taking a quick stop in at our old local pub for a game of pool and then over to Frankie & Benny’s for our evening meal.

Me racking up the pool ballsDan playing pool in StaffordMy first job post-degree was as Assistant Manager of Frankie & Benny’s in Stafford and I was ever so disappointed to see that the service had gone downhill since we last visited.  We had finished our starters before our drinks arrived, were sat right by the hotplate, where we saw our meals gradually get more and more cold during the fifteen minutes they were sat out waiting to be delivered to our table.  Dan’s meal then arrived wrongly (containing the salad he had asked to have on the side and without the bacon and cheese on his fries) and my side order didn’t arrive.  I felt a little sorry for Dan as I couldn’t keep quiet in the restaurant.  It’s frustrating having been a restaurant manager as I know exactly what should happen to provide a good eating out experience.  I don’t think we shall be going to Frankies any more though.  We have had one too many bad experiences at their restaurants just lately.

From Frankies we walked into town.  Cocktails featured strongly here.  I do like a good cocktail!Dan and Me drinking cocktails on our anniversary weekendOn Sunday (our actual anniversary) we enjoyed a lazy morning in the hotel before nipping to check out kitchen and bathroom displays in the local stores.  This seems to be how we spend our Sundays just lately since buying the new house.

Hunting down a new kitchenIn my opinion, once you’ve seen displays in one store, you’ve seen them all.  We know what we want (similar colours to the above picture, although without the red tiles) and I would quite happily wait until we were ready to go ahead with the kitchen before having another mooch around the DIY stores but Dan is very excited about our kitchen being absolutely perfect.  I am too, I just know we have a lot of other things to be getting on with first!

At lunchtime we made our way over to The Holly Bush Inn in Salt.  This was where Dan took me for our six month dating anniversary and it has remained a firm favourite with us.  We last popped in for a flying visit on the way back from getting engaged two years ago.

Dan and Me at the Holly Bush on our anniversary weekendDan and Me at the Holly Bush on our anniversary weekend Dan and Me at the Holly Bush on our anniversary weekendIt was super sunny out – excuse the squint!

We didn’t want to stay out too late as we had left Bella overnight so once we had finished our meals we headed back home to Northamptonshire where we opened our presents from each other.

The first year of marriage is supposed to be celebrated with ‘paper’ gifts.  I had bought a large frame and cut spaces into the card inside which I then labelled “Daniel + Mary Pearson” at the top.  Underneath, the cutouts read “9th August 2014″, “1st Anniversary”, “5th Anniversary”, “10th Anniversary” and “20th Anniversary”.First anniversary paper gift - photo frameI placed a picture of us on our wedding day in the first frame slot and then four copies of the top of the Order of Service from our wedding day in the remaining picture holes.  I also popped a couple of scratch cards into Dan’s card.

Dan had also gifted me a scratch card, along with a couple of running books – ‘Running Like a Girl’ and ‘Sports Nutrition for Endurance Athletes’.  He also bought us a wedding album.  Now we just need to find and unpack the box which contains the USB of our wedding photos so that we can choose which ones to place inside!

First anniversary paper presents for a runner

We both had a lovely weekend and I was ready to jump straight into my PJs and dressing gown upon arriving home.  I popped my phone into my dressing gown pocket, bending down to make a fuss of Bella in the kitchen and my phone slipped right out and smashed on the floor.

Smashed screen on my MotorolaI was absolutely gutted.  I love my phone.  It’s made so many tasks a huge amount easier this year, but unfortunately I did a good job of destroying it and the glass screen has completely shattered.  Dan seems to think that the digitiser is working OK underneath the glass, but obviously it’s not very practical to run my finger over the screen at the moment, or to hold my phone up to my ear.  Not unless I want another trip to A&E this year anyway!  My contract doesn’t expire until February, so Dan has ordered a protective film to sit over the smashed glass, but for the time-being I won’t have a handy phone in my pocket whilst out on runs/to take random pictures whilst out with.  :(

Have you smashed your phone before?
If you are married, how did you celebrate your first anniversary?
Are you any good at pool?!

14 thoughts on “One year a wife

  1. I have been to Frankie and Bennie’s a few times and the service has always been awful but some of my friends like the food so we went back. Once I complained and was sent a voucher, when w came to use it the manager was so rude and really agressive asking why we had complained, and still the service was awful. It’s on my no list now! A shame for you that it was so bad.
    That frame is a lovely idea, something to keep adding to.

  2. Ahh what a shame about Frankie and Benny’s service. I detest bad service and will always complain. I think if you’re paying for a good meal, you expect a good meal! It’s because you left it went downhill 😉
    That’s really sweet presents you guys exchanged. Glad you had a good time despite the bad service. The burger looks awesome though at the other place. This is why I could never enjoy a fast food burger because burgers from pubs are just amazing – huge and full of a chunky burger with nice toppings. McDonalds could never compare!
    I’ve dropped about three iPods when they were first released. Each time I was able to send it back to Apple and they returned a new one. The last one they sent back the upgraded one (as they had stopped making the ones with the wheel thing). I’m dreading ever dropping my phone though…or at least dropping it so it breaks. *Gulp*
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    1. Clearly because I left it went downhill! Hehe! 😛
      Despite mainly ordering vegetarian dishes when I go out, there is something about a proper burger from a nice pub. I don’t think I have ever had a McDonalds burger – it has never appealed to me!
      That’s good that you were able to return your iPods to Apple. I’ve been meaning to get a case for a while now and just hadn’t gotten round to it. I’ve learnt from my mistake now though. :(

  3. WOW a year sure FLEW by. I dropped my iPhone last year, but thankfully it cracked the back and not the front. I used it for a solid amount of time still before buying a new one.

    1. I was ages coming up with something to get him, and then came up with the idea a few days before, leaving me hardly any time to put it together! Prepared as usual…!

  4. I am currently also using a smashed phone. My husband’s old one, but at least it turns on, unlike my own deceased phone. Waaah.

    Congratulations on your one year anniversary! You look so beautiful in your wedding photos. We celebrated ours two weeks ago and it’s crazy how fast things go. It looks like you had the perfect weekend, here’s to many more years of happiness x
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    1. Why haven’t they invented an indestructible phone yet?!
      Congrats on your anniversary too! I can’t believe how fast this year went and that we’ve been married for a year already. What did we do in that time?!

  5. I haven’t been to Frankie and Bennys for about 10 years, as last time I went there I got food poisoning, I would never go back! I dropped my phone in the toilet in Feb (fell out of my shorts pocket!), but managed to salvage it in a bag of rice, it’s just about hanging on, although the touch screen can be a bit temperamental- just need to hold out for one more month before I can upgrade!
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    1. Food poisoning?! How awful. I’ve been lucky and never had food poisoning. I think my stomach is pretty hardy and I can cope with most things.
      Contracts tend to be 24 months nowadays and there is hardly anybody I know not holding out until contract renewal at the minute! I’ve never dropped my phone down the toilet either – I tend to keep my phone in my front pockets, so if it falls, I manage to catch it in time!

  6. Belated happy anniversary! Such a shame about Frankie and Benny’s and your phone, but it sounds like you had a nice time nonetheless! I think your frame for your present is lovely.

    We went to a gig in London on our anniversary weekend last year, and this year we will be at a murder mystery on Exmoor.
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    1. Thanks Steph!
      I love murder mysteries! I’ve never been on a weekend one before, but have been to a couple where you go to a dinner party as part of the lead up to the murder. My birthday is Halloween so we like to find something fun to take part in during that weekend usually!

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